Brotherly Love

For many years Freemasons have followed three great principles:

Brotherly Love - Every true Freemason will show tolerance and respect for the opinions of others and behave with kindness and understanding to his fellow creatures.

Relief - Freemasons are taught to practise charity and to care, not only for their own, but also for the community as a whole, both by charitable giving, and by voluntary efforts and works as individuals.

Truth - Freemasons strive for truth, requiring high moral standards and aiming to achieve them in their own lives.

Freemasons believe that these principles represent a way of achieving higher standards in life.

It can be seen from the Grand Lodge’s own web site that the Principle of brotherly love cannot mean preferential or special treatment that one freemason must give to another.

Otherwise it would not state ‘tolerance and respect for the opinions of others and behave with kindness and understanding to his fellow creatures but would state tolerance and respect for the opinions of only its own members and behave with kindness and understanding to only fellow members.

This is further reinforced by the following statement from Grand Lodge:

Q. Are Freemasons expected to prefer fellow Masons at the expense of others in giving jobs, promotions, contracts and the like?

A.  Absolutely not. That would be a misuse of membership and subject to Masonic discipline. On his entry into Freemasonry each candidate states unequivocally that he expects no material gain from his membership. At various stages during the three ceremonies of his admission and when he is presented with a certificate from Grand Lodge that the admission ceremonies have been completed, he is forcefully reminded that attempts to gain preferment or material gain for himself or others is a misuse of membership which will not be tolerated. The Book of Constitutions, which every candidate receives, contains strict rules governing abuse of membership which can result in penalties varying from temporary suspension to expulsion.

Q. Isn't it true that Freemasons only look after each other?

A. No. From its earliest days, Freemasonry has been involved in charitable activities. Since its inception, Freemasonry has provided support not only for widows and orphans of Freemasons but also for many others within the community. Whilst some Masonic charities cater specifically but not exclusively for Masons or their dependents, others make significant grants to non-Masonic organisations. On a local level, lodges give substantial support to local causes.

Surely, it cannot be that we should give each other special treatment because we are brothers of the fraternity? In this regards, I reproduce another page from the web-page of Grand Lodge:

The principles of Freemasonry do not in any way conflict with its members' duties as citizens, whether at work or at home or in public life, but on the contrary should strengthen them in fulfilling their public and private responsibilities. Thus there is no conflict of interest between a Freemason's obligation and his public duty.

If an actual or potential conflict of duties or interests is known to exist or is foreseen, a declaration to that effect should be made.

It may on occasions be prudent to disclose membership to avoid what others mistakenly imagine to be a potential conflict or bias, but this must be a matter for individual judgement.

A Freemason must not use his membership to promote his own or anyone else's business, professional or personal interests. This is made clear directly or by inference several times during a Freemason's early career so that no Freemason can pretend to be ignorant of it. A Freemason who transgresses this rule may be suspended from Masonic activities or even expelled.

Therefore, ‘BROTHERLY LOVE’ cannot mean that we should forgive a brother who has acted wrongly if in the same circumstances, we would not forgive a non-brother nor does it mean we should give a business deal to a brother where in the same circumstances, we would not have given it to a non-bother, i.e., NO PREFERENTIAL TREATMENT.

WHAT DOES ‘BROTHERLY LOVE’ MEAN?

The word ‘BROTHERLY’ is defined:

‘Characteristic of or befitting brother; fraternal’

So taken in context, the phrase ‘BROTHERLY LOVE’ would mean the love of the ‘characteristic of or befitting brother’. This ‘characteristic of or befitting brother’ only arises by virtue of Freemasonry which creates the brotherhood or the fraternity.

This is supported by the ceremony of initiation when the candidate is told that the fraternity is honourable, brethren should respect, honour and obey the fraternity, brethren should place the interests of the fraternity above those of himself.

Taken in this context, the meaning of ‘BROTHERLY LOVE’ means, that we are taught to love ‘Freemasonry’ which has as its precepts moral and social virtues.

Freemasons are taught as one of the Grand Principles to love all moral and social virtues which include

‘show tolerance and respect for the opinions of others and behave with kindness and understanding to his fellow creatures.’

Which is why during his initiation he is asked;

Does the candidate has a ‘favourable opinion pre-conceived of the Institution? (BROTHERLY LOVE)

Does the candidate have a general desire of knowledge? (TRUTH)

Does the candidate have a sincere wish to render service to fellow creatures? (RELIEF).

  ------------------------------------   Source: Excerpts from a Paper Presented in Lodge St. Michael No. 2933

by W Bro Christopher Bridges,
P.M. Lodge St. Patrick No. 765 I.C.
Junior Warden The Lodge St. Michael No. 2933

Brotherly Love

From: Freemason in Africa Facebook Page

"Brotherly love?" commented the Old Past Master. "Oh, yes, the lodge is full of it.

It is curious the way it manifests itself, sometimes, but when you dig down deep enough into men's hearts, you find a lot of it." "A lot of them never show it, then," said the Very New Mason. "Oh, no, certainly not! Men don't go around demonstrating their affection like a lot of girls, you know," answered the Old Past Master.

"But you don't have to see a demonstration to know the feeling is there. The trouble with so many young Masons is their misunderstanding of the term 'brotherly love,' though high heaven knows the words are sufficiently easy to understand."

"'Brotherly, ' now, means 'like a brother.' I know a lot of brothers hate each other, but they don't act like brothers. There have been cowardly soldiers, and forsworn ministers, and corrupt judges, but when you say a man is 'like a soldier,' you mean 'brave and true'; when you say he is 'good as a minister' you mean one who 'truly does his honest best.' When you say 'upright as a judge' you mean 'as straight as the best of judges.' And when I say 'brotherly' means 'like a brother,' I mean like a brother who is acting as a good brother likes to act."

"As for 'love' there are more definitions than there are words in my mouth (which are several). But in connection with the 'brotherly' the word means that true affection which first considers the good of the person loved."

"Masonry teaches brotherly love. Many of its scholars are a long way from 100 per cent perfect in their lessons. But a lot could get an 'E' on their report card if the Lodge gave out evidence of scholastic standing!

"For instance, there was B'Jones. That is not his name, but it will serve. B'Jones undertook to do a piece of work for a hospital. It took him a year. At the end of the year his business was in shreds and tatters. He had one of those businesses that needs a man's personal attention." "His attention had gone to his hospital, which, by the way, was built and flourishes, to the everlasting credit of his city. It ought to be called the B'Jones hospital, but it isn't."

"A lot of his brethren in his lodge got to know about B'Jones. They called a meeting, called it the B'Jones meeting, issued stock in the B'Jones association, bought the stock, started B'Jones off all over again, and let him pay them back as he could. All this, without B'Jones ever asking for help.

Brotherly love, my son, in the best meaning of the word."

"There was poor old Smith. Smith, during his lifetime, came to the lodge every night. He wasn't very bright, that Smith. He could't learn the work and had no presence. Couldn't make a speech to save his life, so he never was called on at banquets. He never did anything audible, but he was always on committees and he always passed around refreshments and he attended every funeral, and he was always down ahead of the meeting to see if the room was clean, and if it wasn't, he'd sweep it out."

"He gave the best he had in service. Well, Smith died. Men do, you know; and awful lot have, already. At the funeral, we found out Smith left an invalid wife and two half grown children and no assets. It's the lodge's business to take care of such, and we did it.

But three men in the lodge with more money than ability to keep it to themselves, subscribed enough cash to put the boy through a good business school and the girl through a normal school, so they could earn their own living. Charity? Nonsense! The lodge attended to the 'relief.' The three attended to brotherly love. They just remembered what old Smith was and how he gave, and so they turned to and gave. Actually, Smith did most of the loving. The three just acted in reflex to Smith's loving heart, that so cared for his brethren and his Lodge he was always engaged in brotherly work."

"Do you know Brown? Brown runs a garage. Also, Brown ran a temperature until the doctors took him off to the hospital to cut out his something-or -other. Well, the garage was about to cash in. Garages don't run themselves, and there wasn't any one we could hire to run it. So six brothers of this lodge spent two hours a day each at the place, looking after it. We didn't do a very good job, I'm afraid: Brown says we are the worst garage keepers in the world, but we saved the shop from being wrecked and looted, and Brown thinks Masonry means something.

One reason we did it was because of brotherly love in spirit of the fact that sitting around a cold garage selling gasoline is about the uneasiest apology for loafing I know!" "I could talk all night about it. But what's the use? Those to whom 'brotherly love' is just words won't listen to what I say and those who know what they really mean don't need to hear it."

"Well, I am glad I heard it!" answered the Very New Mason. "Then," went the Old Past Master, "get it firmly fixed in your mind, young man, more than one man has gone into a lodge and curled his lip when he learned that he was supposed to be a brotherly lover, and turned around and wept when he found that he was being loved like a brother by men he didn't know cared what became of him."

"Masonry works miracles all the time, and the commonest of them and the one she works oftenest is teaching hard-hearted citizens to be soft-hearted Masons; teaching men the real meaning of the words 'brotherly' and 'love' until they, too, become teachers."